Over the Thanksgiving holiday, my husband and I checked off another experience on our “Bucket List.” We had already “reserved” our larger family for the Christmas holidays coming up and decided to let everyone off the hook for entertaining us (or feeding them!) for Thanksgiving. This freed us to skip town with a clear conscience.
It’s a 650 mile drive from Cincinnati to New York City (not counting the detours for seeing friends or getting lost in Harlem.) That seemed very reasonable when we chose to make this our year to see the Macy’s Parade in person instead of tuning in while being held hostage in a busy kitchen. Thanks to the welcome of friends enroute (near Pittsburgh PA) and in Pelham, NY, we had lovely places to stay, clear directions for train travel to Grand Central Station, and scrumptious dinners with great conversation waiting for us when we returned from our adventures.
Thanksgiving was a chilly but sunny day. We both are keen on experiencing the diversity of the urban scene in New York so the train and street crowds were energizing. We staked out our piece of the curb with small campstools that we could stand on and steady ourselves with the low branch of the small tree that was our “buffer” from the passing foot traffic. I will not bore you with all the details of the grand turn those balloons and marching bands take at 42nd Street and 6th Avenue. The defining word is ENORMOUS. (If you enjoy parades, you probably watch it annually on NBC.)
It was a once-in-a-lifetime experience. And that’s the main lesson we took away. For us, the Macy’s parade was a “been there-done that” experience. I wanted to see it once. I saw it once. And I don’t need to go back because it won’t be that different next year.
The Pasadena Tournament of Roses Parade is a different story. Instead of the “same old/same old” giant balloons every year (with a few additions,) each float in Pasadena is unique and every designer tries to outdo the float that was produced by that same sponsor the previous year. The same variety we relished in the people around us in New York City is what “floats our boat” in the Rose Parade itself.
We each have our own preference on that spectrum between variety and consistency. Some people are perfectly happy to go to the same cabin, condo or National Park for vacation year after year. Others want to visit all 50 states and see something in every climate or continent. Visit a Kiwanis meeting or church sanctuary and you might think the seating was assigned. But if you don’t have Season Tickets to the stadium, symphony or theatre, you will meet new people every time. Some people are attracted to the familiar order and language of a particular liturgy and others want their worship experience to be constantly changing.
Even Christmas highlights these differences. When we break out the Christmas decorations, we know “exactly” where to put that particular angel, nativity scene or centerpiece. Other people “change it up” and re-do the tree theme periodically. Shall we sing only the familiar carols or learn that “new” Advent hymn that turns out to be ancient? Even our “spectrum choice” has some variety.
Being aware of our comfort with consistency or desire for change is also important as we make choices about careers, retirement options, or relocation. Macy’s balloons or Rose Parade floats? Where do you fit on the spectrum?
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